Summer rules. That’s undisputable. But if you’re trying to foster a relationship that’s long distance this summer, the following 3 months of bliss have the potential get complicated and emotional.

Many people think that leaving school means leaving behind the person that you may have found there. But fear not. Here are a few ways to capitalize on the pros and minimize the cons of the long-distance relationship.

1. Use facetime. If you both have iPhones, use this app while you’re on your lunch break, relaxing, or before bed. If not, you can download skype on most smart phones.

2. Look out for number one. If you’re spending this summer away from that special someone, that means you get a whole lot of YOU time. Also maximize hang out time with friends you don’t get to see often.

3. You don’t have to fuss and worry about meeting someone like the rest of your single friends. Next time your at a bar watching all your pals throwing themselves at the opposite sex, sit back, relax, and enjoy the displays of desperation.

4. Use it as an excuse to visit somewhere new. It you live in Boston and they’re in New Jersey, head on down to the shore for a weekend and release your inner Snooki.

5. Go surprise them. There is nothing more gratifying than surprising someone with your simple presence. Plus, that old saying ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder’ definitely applies here. Your long distance lover wont be able to keep their hands off of you.

Don’t fret about spending the summer away from your sweetie. Instead, grab a drink, a pair of shades, and hit the beach with a copy of 50 Shades of Grey.